Trick is dab of silicone on the back, tape it so it sets up and not fall out. Sip a few or watch the 65year old beat the competition on Pinks for a few minutes to say 15 mins. The more time, the more you can bump them all over the place and it will be rubberized in place.
Once you squeeze what is little to be squeezed is use very little silicone, she burns out and you can fluff what is left if you replace the squashed gaskets. If you have to many pipe R&R's, being the oil pan you wanna check for debris of break-in or the clutch burned down; or the pipe is in the way of the next mod and you know the drill about keeping the gaskets in place before the second pair of hands needing those gaskets to stay in place.
Do I recommend you oval the gasket and the two points are touching the port now? Not really. But say if you oval it to push the gasket where it drags on the port opening and homes all the way around the port to header face? Ah, yeah, you have a second choice without the rubber type base being ignore the silicone deal.
Now, I should point out that yama or hondabond type case center glue is not the kind to use. It is more of the Permatex or the GM manifold silicone sealer they use. This hardens and tacks well. So, the silicone is more the glue that sets up fast, can be pushed out to a thin backing. Hey, if you could get crazy glue to tack... I would try that even being sounds like if it could set up, is wipe a spot of carbon build up away so it does not flake off. Tack the 4 sides so at least 3 sides tag to hold, being how distorted the gaskets are.
Set the fold over toward the port, meaning, the smoother side of the gasket faces the header spigot.
You would have to nail each pipe into the port hole. Then hold it there as you drag up any collar you could grab onto. I palm the collector, guide the header in the 4 ports and now scramble for a collar forcing the palm to both hold and push header into the ports. I know what you're going through.
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